Mom Road Ahead

MY EXPERIENCE ABOUT FEBRILE CONVULSION

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My eldest son was 8-month old when he suddenly passed out in my arms. I was so shocked that I couldn’t explain my feeling. My whole body was shaking and my mind cannot function well. I don’t know what to do.  I am hopeless. I was crying and shouting for help, I thought he was dead. He lost his consciousness although his eyes remained open. His skin turned blue.

His seizure ended after 5 minutes but that 5 minutes was a nightmare. It was a terrible feeling I couldn’t explain, a worst feeling a mother could ever feel most especially if you are a first time mom.

Due to panic, my husband brought my son to the nearest hospital barefooted. He also didn’t wear any t-shirt. Situation like this will paralyze your entire mind and body. You cannot think straight, I can’t think of a better solution. I can’t calm myself because I’m terribly shaking.

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Prayer of a Forsaken Child

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I wrote this prayer just after Typhoon Yolanda. It was a super typhoon landed in the Philippines that stole a thousand lives. It was probably the most destructive typhoon ever landed in the region.

It happened years ago but it always remind me of that tragic night. It taught me lessons of empathy and gratefulness. Life is short to waste on things that don’t matter. It taught me to live my life to the fullest.

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How I Overcame My Fear Of Blogging?

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The FEAR of failure is the number one killer of SUCCESS in your blogging journey. It paralyzes your entire mind and body; it has the ability to stop you do greater things. It can cause you to stumble and stop dreaming.

We all fear something. No one is exempted! Written below are some of them:

  • Fear of Rejections
  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of Death
  • Fear of Criticisms
  • Fear of the Future
  • Fear of the Unknown

I have lots of them! Listed below are my fears – the reason why it took me years before starting my blogging journey:

  1. The Fear of Criticism – I am so defensive, easily angered and over- sensitive, a single criticism can crash my spirit.
  2. My husband and parents only do traditional business. They never believe in working online. To them, blogging is just a waste of time and effort. I never got their support.
  3. I always question myself, “what if I fail?” My savings might be at risk.
  4. What will I tell my friends if I failed? They might turn their shoulders away from me and tell me, I’m doing crazy things!
  5. My English Sucks – I only knew basic ones
  6. I don’t know how to write a professional content. Mine is just a simple one.

The FEAR of FAILURE took me 7 years before starting this blog – the blog I always wanted my whole life. That fear hindered me from believing in myself and my ability to showcase my talent and passion to the world.  Lots of wasted hours but I had gained so much knowledge that I can apply and contribute to the world.

I love blogging… I really do! The love of it pushed me to read and research more, in fact, I’m spending 2 to 3 hours daily, researching, learning and reading blogging tips, tricks and strategies. I bought a lot of books, downloaded eBooks and watched blogging tips on YOU TUBE to learn and gain more knowledge.

And here comes my blog. After so many doubts, Fears and discouraging words, I had the Guts to start my blogging journey!  I think I am ready for a big Launch…

“No guts, No Glory!

I don’t care anymore if people will criticize me, saying I’m not good enough, that my English Sucks… 7 years is enough to feed my Fears… I have to do something for myself and nothing and no one will ever stop me from growing!

I WILL NOT GIVE-UP! I WILL NOT GIVE-IN…That is a PROMISE!

Note: I am not a SUCCESS guru but I read a lot.  And made sure I practice what I read!

Without further Ado, let’s start listing!

  1. FACE YOUR FEARS

You cannot totally eliminate Fear; it will always be there so embrace it. Never allow it to ruin your day. Your ability to face it will give you the real courage to move one step ahead.

Example:

  • Your fear of getting fat will push you to work out even if you are in bad mood.
  • The fear of failing your exam will push to study hard.
  • The fear of losing your job will push you to wake up early and go to work even if it’s raining
  • The Fear of financial instability is your number 1 reason why you save for the future
  • The fear of losing your business will push you to work harder and longer than your competitions

SEE?  Act despite of fear!  Feel the fear but never let it stop you!

  1. MAKE A PROMISE TO YOURSELF

Your promise and self- affirmation will help you eliminate self-doubt. This will give you hope to act despite of fear.

Every time I encounter discouragements, I always go back and read my promise to myself!

MY PROMISES:

  • I will not Give up no matter what the odds may be
  • I may be pressed but never will be crushed
  • I will make this blogging journey is a beautiful experience
  • I will make this BLOG succeed to its greatest heights
  • I will read more to become more
  • I will help others to get what they want
  • I will never take criticisms personally – It will not stop me from achieving the things that I am intended to do
  1. JOURNAL EVERYTHING

Identify what causes your fears. What’s the worst case scenario that could happen if you fail? If it will not KILL you, it shouldn’t FEAR you!

I commonly used a sheet of paper. I divide it into two: On the left side I figure out what causes my fears, on the right, the possible solution for each case. I also journal my daily blessings so I’ll be grateful for the things I have.

  1. SEE THE VISION

Be like eagles, they see great distance.

What will happen to your BLOG 5 years from now? If you can’t see SUCCESS, the obstacles will always be there to frighten you.

And a SUCCESSFUL blog was accompanied by a great SACRIFICE. It was a part of a PROCESS.

  1. SWITCH YOUR FEAR INTO WISDOM

Knowledge will be your best revenge. If you know everything – no force, no power, no criticism will ever put you down.

I have the fear of standing in front of the crowd, my whole body shake. And I have to be perfectly ready. If you know what you’re saying, no power will stop you.

Knowledge can give you outstanding confidence!

And always remember, everybody has FEARS; the only difference is that, they act despite of fear, they feel the power but they never let it ruin their plans.

  1. PRAY

Prayer I say is the most powerful thing I do when confronted with FEARS. I feel God’s embrace when I pray. I feel more secure when I kneel down in prayer.

Prayer has the power to eliminate negative feelings and emotions. It has the ability to move mountains.

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